It doesn't mean it's impossible for me to get turned on by certain aspects of a woman. Men "hit differently" and that's what makes me comfortable identifying as gay. I mean, I've had some sexual experiences with women, and those experiences don't make me bisexual. He may be worried that he isn't capable of pleasing his woman/wife. Many people would say that disqualifies them from identifying as straight, but I don't agree. Here are just four of the possible reasons a straight man might enjoy watching gay porn: 1. It's actually common for straight people to watch gay porn as part of this process ( or. 21 of straight men reported having watched gay porn in the same time frame. Young people who start watching porn tend to keep looking for more and more extreme porn to get the same dopamine high. 55 of gay men reported having watched straight porn in the last six months. I've had sex with a couple of men who identify as straight. Over exposure to pornography at your age - at any age, but especially as a teenager leads to desensitization. I thought people would be more judgmental. I have to say the other replies to this question make me happy. I am a straight (maybe Bi) male and I have watched gay porn on more than one occasion.